December 2019

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How can you determine where you are along your journey?  Missing women and children?  And, are you closer to freedom today than yesterday?   

Why do people force their actions on you? I mean seriously, do you think its ok even after I say, NO? Unsolicited dick pics? Fines in Texas?  

Decisions, decisions! Would you die for a chicken sandwich? How about propose to your guy? Doesn't that change the roles of engagement? Lastly, why I love men as much as I do...

What's the point of denigrating someone? Isn't that a reflection of your negative self? How and why you should support your children?

Who needs extra support? There was this one time I fell in love with a blanket... it was oh so good to me! And, as adults, should we let others know if we needed special accommodations to learn in school? You know like if there was an IEP or 504 involved?   

How about we start thinking in a new direction? What do you think about upward social comparison? We are who we are, right? How should we respond to the boundaries placed on us by others? 

 Y'all ready to chat? Love languages, mental abuse and manipulation, and, BTW, who conditioned you to suffer in bad relationships?  

Tonight, we chat about those dark spaces that dominant our brain and render our bodies helpless... how do we pull ourselves out? And about that time when I found out that I'm a natural at being a Dominatrix... aannddd what do you think about threesomes? 

I'm back bishes! Whew! Was I tired or what? Lots to talk about tonight... 

Do you ever think too much? Do you know why? I've been trying to figure it out myself. Listen here... I may have a few solutions to ease the mental anguish.

What does it mean to forgive? For what exactly are you asking forgiveness? How do you forgive yourself? 

Happy Birthday to me! Tonight, we will go waaay back to the dirt country roads of Georgia, my parents divorce and, well, how I became the free-spirited woman that I am! Oh, and there's a tiny lesson on the correct way to use chop-sticks... :)

When is the right time to exit a friendship? When people aren't capable of you, they are incapable of being in a relationship with you. Tonight I'll share the heart-wrenching tale of losing someone I thought very dear...

What's going on in your inbox? Tonight we'll talk intentions and recognizing the leeches. How to keep yourself safe in a world of lazy dating. 

Guess who's gone solo? MEEE! Great conversation about the realization of being pimped! How do you free yourself from the stronghold of someone's intentions of misusing you?

I'm back bishes... after a hiatus in Naples, Italy! Tonight, we will talk about women bearing the shame of their husbands infidelities and speaking your intention into the Universe. 

An evening of conversation with victims advocate, radio & TV host and author Margo Williams who hails from Los Angeles. She graced us with her words, insights and a poetry reading from her book, 

When God Speaks.

FB: Margo Williams

Tonight I'm flying solo! The conversations will range from my crazy spill in San Diego to oh so yummy orgasms to Happy PRIDE to preparing for tomorrow. Enjoy. Watch here! 

Joycelyn Wells

Phenomenal musician and rapper. Skinny - C hails from Atlanta, GA. He started rapping as a teenager realizing over time that he had, in fact, discovered his gift of rhyme and prose. Watch Live interview here!

Team Skinny - C 

Lucky me, I know Chimere! The Natural Hair Lady and creator of Dr. Locs.

FB: Chimere Faulk 

IG: @naturalhairlady

IG: @drlocs

Jason, brilliant visual artist in Atlanta. He performs free hand art throughout the city at Kat's Cafe, art shows and one man shows. Watch Live interview here.

FB: Jason JHigh Hightower

IG: @jasonjhighhightower    

Gigi, an activation life coach, specializing in astrology, sacred sexuality and spiritual health & wellness. Gigi hosts events throughout the country including Witches Brew Activation Retreat & Kink'd Up ATL.  Listen to interview here.

FB: Gigi Robinson  

IG: Iamlivingaligned

Beautiful, sexy, and brilliant with a gift of numbers! Nichole joined me for a night of fun and insight into why we are exactly who were are! View interview here. 

Wine & Numerology Tour 2019

FB: Nichole Osunyoyin Omiyaale Lanier

IG: nicholescosmiccove

He's an Uber driver, interviewer and many other things all-in-one. Allan interviewed me after the release of my first book. Now I can return the favor!  

FB: Confessions of a Rider

IG: Confessionsofarider

Very first guest! She's 1 of 15 most influential women in the metropolitan Atlanta area, community activist and bonafide altruist. Love her! And she is social media free but you can find her through Cobb NAACP and The American Legion. Life of service. XOXO 

Did someone say #audible? RIP Kobe Bryant. What would you do differently if death was near? Where is my sorrow?     

Are you being rawed? 

Cancelled shows, quitting and Aaron Hernandez.. What does quitting mean to you? 

There's so much goodness out there. You just have to build a bridge to get to the other side of the muck.  

What happens when the person you love isn't capable of loving you back? How do you say goodbye? 

Do folks still make resolutions? 

Did you watch the 'Healthy Me. Health You.' series on YouTube? Frank Lloyd Wright's 

"Child of the Sun"

Today, I'm saying goodbye to a dear friend, sorrow lives here. Later there's some talk about orgasms after 60... #guesswho

One year! 44 episodes of Joy Exposed! Why we are? Who we are? And, anal play, of course. Why not? It's our anniversary! 

Road trip with my Mom. Ready for some wine? Golf outing with my #facelesslove. What day is it? Damned coronavirus! :) 

Ooops it's Thursday! I didn't get to go live last night. Technical issues... however, here's a quick dose of my thoughts on the irony of Herman Cain dying on the same day we celebrate the life of Congressman John Lewis. 

How often do you orgasm? Effing COVID-19 has everybody anxious! Are we seriously sending the babies back to school? 

Back to phase -1 with this damn Covid19, it's kicking our butts! What's up with #wayfair? Are they trafficking children or nah? 

How do we continue learning about ourselves in the absence of formal education? How do you cope with social emotional learning? Is it victim shaming because you offer solutions instead of being sucked into the muck? Who is the leader in your life?

Who says child abuse is okay? Why is it important to force submission? 

As a parent, why should you continue to grow? 

When was the last time you learned something new?

When you work for yourself, who will celebrate you? I'm still working on tapping into my Deion Sanders spirit. Are you okay with asking for what your want?       

mySHAPE.solutions is celebrating gains! What happens when people come to you in the dark? #BreonnaTaylor RIP    

Avoiding responsibility: The debilitating reality of relationships. Can broke men make women happy?  

Can we stop child abuse? Children  become adults... Can we normalize happy? What about submission? Are you into that?  

Will I be caught in a deadly threesome? Schools in session, hugs abound and basking in the energy of Alice Walker. 

Free thinking women and correction? Breaking generational curses? How I used sex to feed my anxiety?  

 Actions of independent women and the men who love them, #anxietysucks and 

grow #Karen grow! 

Am I woke enough? What does being woke mean to you? Are you aware of your deja vu moments? 

Three Cheers of Joy! FB Posts of the Week! Raising kind people & the year 2020 in Review. So much has happened but we are still here... cheers to that!  

Is that virtual argument really worth your peace? What to do if you are lonely? How do you silence the noise in your head? 

What does it mean to start your own business? This shit is not for the weak-willed. Is your bag of successes full? How do remind yourself that you are great? What role do your family and friends play in your financial success?   

Do you have duplicitous thoughts? Do you think having them confuses the Universe on how to dole out your gifts? My apologies to #facelesslove. Don't you just love #DeionSanders? I do.

Would you tell your partner about a $4K gift from your ex? Did you zoom for Thanksgiving? Christmas plans? Adopting kids for the holiday? What can I build with my #facelesslove's daughter?